Opinions about the forum logo (Ace Spectrum flag superimposed on a fleur de lis) vary widely between forum members.
I like the logo, but I'm willing to change it if others have something better in mind.

Please vote at your convenience, and if you want it changed, please post your suggestion of the change in this thread.

Looks like forum activity has come to a halt, we were relatively active back in the early stages, but what now?

Anyone out there?

We need to fix that. Anyone got any ideas? How does one make a forum active?

Having trouble logging in, viewing, chatting, or whatever-the-hay? Let us know here, please.

Here's some things I can think of off the top of my head that might end up in a subforum...
Defining gray-A
Defining demisexuality
How to tell if you are gray/demi - and not ace or sexual
What exactly is sexual attraction like for a gray/demi and does it differ from a sexual's sexual attraction in any way
"Coming out" as a gray - is it important? How to do it?
Visibility for grays and …

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I'm making a completely voluntary, self-directed and (hopefully) temporary resignation from my mod status for the time being. In short, I'm doing it because I would like to make sure that the community would still be comfortable with me having moderation powers after they've seen how I handle several controversial topics I'd like to cover in future posts.

Talk it here, lads, ladies, and all types besides. We're open to suggestion.
The site is still more/less under construction; user input helps us tailor it to the needs of our wee community.


-We are putting it under consideration to make a subforum for semisexuals as well. Feel free to remark for or against this, and your reason for it.
Note that I don't want to imply that demis or greys have …

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On the home page, scroll allllll the way down. Do you see a box-looking widget?
That is the chatbox; click the little "log in" link in its upper right corner to use it.

If I see things getting ugly in the chat, I will remove it indefinitely. It is a privilege, not a right, savvy?

If you have trouble with it, let me know, and I'll see if I can do anything to help.
Happy gabbing!

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Nothing to announce at the moment except that FINALLY WE ARE ONLINE, YAY!

Much love,
Yours Truly

We're still a wee baby forum, and I'm still a university student who occasionally enjoys sleeping and getting homework done. I spend massive amounts of time online on a regular basis, but it would be a royal help if I could round up a few other people willing to play moderators once in awhile.

PM or E-mail me if interested, with a simple explanation of why you are interested and any skills you …

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