Who am I? Common entry point shared by the CD community.

I stumbled upon your community looking for resources for a new poster in the Literotica forums. He definitely sounds like he is somewhere in the Asexual area so I linked to AVEN. In reading at AVEN I found your space and think he may fit in the gray sexual area.

Obviously the particulars or accuracy of a label are inconsequential to someone looking for the city the ballpark is located in....but my own parallel journey of discovery through the CD community at Crossdressers.com a number of years ago made me think he could benefit by the process of self discovery that happens when one searches for a label to explain, "Who am I?"

I realized in browsing a bit that I may have some sort of relevance here as not an actual demi-sexual, but something on that planet at least. I am interested in reading and asking and figuring out if there is something helpful for my own journey to be found here.

I vaguely fit in the LGBT community as a (currently disinterested in the activity) CD. From my work in the past with that community, I understand that for us the urge waxes and wanes over years and decades sometimes. Since I have been on the wane for a few years I feel awkward moving about in that community, much less here. I have a feeling I might gain some parallel insights to some of my current issues. Didn't find a newbie thread for allies, but wanted to start somewhere.

Hi Inquisitive, and welcome here

Thanks...I was having trouble navigating the board. Of the three boards that I have haunted over the years, all three use I think vBulletin and clunky as that is, I feel at home on those.

I just finally found the newbie introduction area. It seems obvious now, if it was a snake it would have bit me. If a moderator wanted to merge or delete the thread or post, I am happy either way.