Curious/inquisitive

Well I have been thinking about this a lot lately, I identify as pansexual, but I don't find myself attracted to more masculine people until I build a solid relationship with them and become quite emotionally deep, whereas with femininity I am sexually attracted without much emotional connection beforehand. I would say I'm quite feminine but definitely with more masculine traits than a lot of feminine people.

I was curious as to whether there was a name for being Demi-attracted to masculine and more commonly attracted to feminine?

Again labels don't mean much at all, at the end of the day it's up to me who I am attracted to! I'm just curious, and also would love to speak to those who have similar feelings?!

I just realised the "it's up to me" thing, and I am not saying people choose their sexualities! Just that its really my choice how I would like to IDENTIFY!

Hi there
I don't really know what you put under the terms "masculine" / "feminine", if you mean male/female or not sex or gender related.
I mean, I guess (from your nickname) you're a female. If you mean you're demi with men and "sexual" with women, you could say you're pansexual but demihetero, or something like that.
If you were refering to the faminity/masculinity thing (which need to be defined.... because if it's what stereotypes define as being "masculine/feminine" it doesn't really mean anything) meaning "demi-attracted by people (either male, female, other) being "masculine"" and "sexual with feminine male/female/other"... it's not the same thing you know.

I don't know if I were of any help but I'll be glad to chat with you, even if I don't share your situation, as I am pandemi (haha I just made an horrible play of word xD).

thank you so much, with the masculine and feminine thing it's just that, I'm sexual toward biological males who are camp or feminine, therefore I didn't want to use the gender terms c:

I'm glad I could help