hello everyone

my story, hmmmmm

well

To make it short I kind of been kind of different but still I have not, and that often confused others and I have not understand why they are confused.

uuhmm, like my wife some days ago ask me if I am gay, no I am not gay! I have nothing against gays, but I still not gay :-)

I pretty social and kind of blend in with everybody anyway :-)

So why did I find this place ?

Well, actually I found aven like 5 years ago but couldn't really figure things out anyway.

I think I kind of mixed up orientation and libido and couldn't really see myself as something else than heterosexual.

So ?

If I have to put a static label I am demi-panromantic, demi-heterosexual with a hi libido.


I am in my 30+, so I have some experience what kind of different situation you can be in as a demi as a man, so do not hesitate to ask.

Well, that was the short version of it.



Hugs

Hi Howyoufeel
By "hi libido" you mean "high libido" ? Why do your wife ask you if you're gay ? I guess if you love her, you can feel desire for her, can't you ?

Hi,
yes i meant high
And yes, I love my wife very much and we have improved your deep emotional communication :-) and our knowledge.
It is a bit complicated to explain, but hey, begin demi is not always easy :-)