I am demisexual...

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I am demisexual...

Post by Lucifer on Wed Jan 08, 2014 1:59 pm

..without a doubt, absolutely, whole-heartedly. I have put myself through agony since puberty, trying to live up to expectations of sexuality that conflict with who I am. I've for so long believed that I need to become more comfortable feeling lustful toward women, and that I need to work on this "issue". I am now understanding that there is no problem to be solved here, just an orientation to be realized and accepted. Honestly, it's been hell, and now I'm putting a stop to it.

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Re: I am demisexual...

Post by Lantern on Thu Jan 09, 2014 2:57 am

Welcome from another new member, and congratulations on finding an identity that works for you!

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Re: I am demisexual...

Post by Halfling on Thu Jan 09, 2014 1:21 pm

Welcome here Smile

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Re: I am demisexual...

Post by Lims on Sun Jan 12, 2014 1:35 pm

Welcome to the site friend Very Happy Hopefully you can start seeing you don't have to fit into the norms of society...I used to think I was some sort of freak show myself, people kept saying I'd grow out of it but I didn't and I'm happy as I am Smile
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Re: I am demisexual...

Post by Lucifer on Wed Jan 15, 2014 2:28 am

Thanks guys.

I never thought that I'd be labeling myself in this way. But I understand the value it now. When immersed in a society which imposes standards and expectations that conflict with what is in my nature, it becomes necessary to re-legitimize my nature with a label/concept.

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Re: I am demisexual...

Post by Lims on Thu Jan 16, 2014 1:24 pm

Any time friend Smile It's almost comforting to have a label sometimes, particularly in a society that thrives from them. If you ever need someone to talk to about things I'm around when I can Smile
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